Quakers In London

Category: Quakers in London

  • Reflection on Helping Run London Quakers

    Reflection on Helping Run London Quakers

    A reflection from our Friend Fred Ashmore

    We laid down London Quakers after our last QiL Meeting for business on 13 June and approved the final annual report.  So, no more mailings, no more conversations with Friends House hospitality, no more flyers furtively scattered around the cafe, no more smiling Friends arriving with โ€œwas I supposed to registerโ€.

    Closing down included archiving a set of the Annual Reports from the beginning in 2011 until now.ย How nostalgic that was. If youโ€™re interested you can have a look at them at this linkย  Annual Reports. ย  They included lots of familiar themes and thoughts such as chaplaincy, death and dying, sex gender, racism, reparations. ย A good proportion of these were the meetings that went into pulling together the present Quakers in London and its structures.ย  LQ has run 7 or 8 gatherings for the Quakers of London every year for 12 years and each and every one of those was organised for you by some Friend or several Friends. Best of luck going forward!ย Iโ€™m going to find a deck chair.


    Without London Quakers, Quakers in London will miss lots of the incredible service that Friends gave to help build our London Wide community. The baton has been passed! If you’d like to organise or create something for London Friends, please contact QiLAC arrangements@quakersinlondon.org.

  • Getting to know: Gerry

    Getting to know: Gerry

    Name: Gerry Millar

    Role: Member of Arrangements Committee for JLAM (not to mention other roles within Local and Area Meeting!)

    Local Meeting: Westminster, currently within London West AM. Iโ€™ve been attending for 28 years, and love our community. I find it very exciting how many new younger Friends are becoming part of that community, and choosing to apply for membership

    Aside from Quakers, how do you like to spend your time? I share an allotment with a friend, which gives me space and time outside, and also the chance to grow nice produce when things go well. My friend loves tomatoes, so we always have a glut of a wide variety of shapes, sizes and colours in summer. Our plot is dominated by a huge old oak tree, covered in ivy, so we do our bit for biodiversity without even trying. I also love reading, and re-discovered local libraries for borrowing almost any novel and a variety of other works.

    What parts of your service are you looking forward to? Iโ€™m looking forward to a time when we have got to grips with the role and everything that it entails. We are still grappling with what shape the Area Meetings should have and how to balance all the elements which make a successful Area Meeting thrive. Of course, thatโ€™s not all down to us, but we do need to do more to make the meetings feel like enticing and attractive events, for example to encourage parents to bring their children, and for everyone to want to take part as we grow.

    What is something you would like people to know about you or your role? I wish we understood more about it! Itโ€™s quite hard to tease out what responsibilities belong to us, which to the clerks of QiL/JLAM, and which to the meeting as a whole.

    Whatโ€™s your favourite quote from QF&P? 26.70. “Give over thine own willing, give over thine own running, give over thine own desiring to know or be anything and sink down to the seed which God sows in the heart, and let that grow in thee and be in thee and breathe in thee and act in thee; and thou shalt find by sweet experience that the Lord knows that and loves and owns that, and will lead it to the inheritance of Life, which is its portion.”

    Isaac Penington, 1661

    I like it because it challenges me to turn my life over to God, though I find that very very difficult. But I also like it as a centring down practice, reminding me to โ€œgive over [my] own desiring to know or be anything, and sink down to the seed which God sows in the heartโ€. I sometimes say it over to myself at the beginning of meeting for worship, to help me settle.

    Bonus: Gerry’s Book Recomendations! I love detective stories, currently a fan of Simon Mason who has also written such books for young adults as well as the adult market. I recently read a couple of Willa Cather novels for the first time, and a memoir by an exiled Palestinian queer writer called Tareq Baconi. Oh, and the poetry, novel and memoir by another queer writer, Seรกn Hewitt, whose work I fell in love with.

    To get to know our community better, we are publishing a series of posts introducing Quakers in London including (but by no means limited to) staff members and role holders! If there is someone you would like to learn more about, or you would be interested in introducing yourself, please email us at quill@quakersinlondon.org.

  • Getting to know: Christine

    Getting to know: Christine

    Name: Christine Downes-Grainger

    Neither of these last names is the patriarchal name I was registered with at birth. My husband was born as Downes and then adopted by his aunt who had married a Mr Grainger. In some ways I helped him understand his identity. He asked, as he developed contact with his birth parents, if we could change our family’s name to D-G. He felt he was a hybrid of two families.

    Role: NE Thames representative to the London Development Group (and NET AM clerk)

    Now a member of the QiL Arrangements Committee

    Local Meeting: Epping, which I first went to in 2010. I joined the Society at Middlesbrough Meeting (NE England) in the mid 70s. There were six years in the 2000s when I took no interest in Quaker matters as my husband had worked his way out of unwitting dependence on tranquillisers, antidepressants, sleeping pills and painkillers, plus numerous other prescriptions to offset the side effects of the first drugs.

    Aside from Quakers, how do you like to spend your time? I was accepted as a member early on, in spite of having very little time and energy to contribute to the meeting, and no money to support it. I applied partly because the identity of being a Quaker seemed very important to me, and because I felt the need for a supportive network. I knew that were I to be left on my own, I could go to a Quaker meeting in any town and be welcomed. This situation happened in 2009. I am glad of the many opportunities for learning and service that my local and area meeting has offered me. I enjoy a weekly U3a singing group and walks in nature.

    What aspects of your service are you most looking forward to? Other people finding they can support our structures in large and small helpful ways. I firmly believe we can achieve more harmonious outcomes if we work together. This takes time as we understand where we have made assumptions and are excluding certain people or favouring certain viewpoints. I want to enable the spirit of Quaker meetings to thrive among or alongside the regulations of the 21st Century.

    What’s your favourite quote from QF&P?

    Seek to know one another in the things which are eternal.

    In the 1970s version of A & Q (blue cover) this was the opening sentence of the second paragraph. It disappeared from the green trial of Questions and Counsel and I did not see it in the red version that was issued. I wrote to my LM clerk in dismay. He pointed out it had been retained but had been merged into Number 18. As a young mother when I first attended, the statement told me that I had found an organisation that accepted all the ages and stages of life and what we did not know about anything beyond it. That was anchoring.

    To get to know our community better, we are publishing a series of posts introducing Quakers in London including (but by no means limited to) staff members and role holders! If there is someone you would like to learn more about, or you would be interested in introducing yourself, please email us at quill@quakersinlondon.org.

  • Quakers in London welcomes Jane-Eve Straughton as new Executive Secretary

    We’re delighted to announce that Jane-Eve Straughton has been appointed Executive Secretary of London Quakers Property Trust (LQPT), and will become Executive Secretary of Quakers in London (QiL) from January 2027. She joins us on 14 September, and Friends will have the chance to meet her at JLAM on 12 September.

    Some of you will already know Jane-Eve. She’s a member of NETAM, where she serves as a Local Meeting clerk, and many will have encountered her through her work heading one of the governance teams at Quakers in Britain.

    Jane-Eve brings a wealth of not-for-profit leadership experience, including as Executive Director of English Touring Opera and in other opera administration roles. Across her career she has built staff teams, managed substantial budgets, served as Company Secretary, supported strategy development, and ensured good governance. She holds a Diploma in Law and a degree in French and Russian, and while living in Norway was part of the clerking team at Oslo Monthly Meeting.

    As Executive Secretary, Jane-Eve will lead the staff team, oversee the maintenance and development of our meeting houses, and support trustees and the network of committees that keep London Quaker life running.

    A thorough and considered process

    This appointment followed a rigorous and carefully run recruitment process, with many strong candidates including Quakers, people from other churches, other faiths, and of no faith.

    We’re grateful to the Friends who gave their time to the recruitment panel, drawn from across London Quakers: six Area Meetings, LQPT trustees, Young Adult Quakers, the London Development Group, BYM trustees, QiL Nominations, QiL Arrangements Committee, and QiL Clerks (several wearing more than one hat).

    As Beth Allen writes in Quaker faith & practice 8.24, “We need to be an ordinary well-run organisation, with good structures, and sensible practices, which we then make extraordinary by transcending not discarding them.” We believe Jane-Eve will help us do exactly that.

    Caroline Nursey, Clerk LQPT Trustees and Member of London Development Group

  • Be Part of Creatingย Quakers in London!

    Be Part of Creatingย Quakers in London!

    Nominations Committee are looking for Friends to fill essential roles which will shape the future of Quakers in London

    The Committee would particularly like to hear from more friends who haven’t yet become involved, especially younger friends.

    Each of us has valuable skills, and a unique perspective which could enrich the Quakers in London community and help make it a more vibrant, creative, and inclusive Area Meeting. Ask if you feel called to serve, or if you know a Friend who may be well placed to do so.

    Nominations Committee are currently looking to fill the following roles:

    • Treasurer
    • Interfaith Interchurch Representatives
    • Children and Young Peoples Representatives
    • Outreach Committee
    • Finance Committee
    • Property Committee
    • Employment Committee

    If you would like to offer service yourself fill in an Offer of Service form!

    You can make suggestions for Friends to be considered for the different roles using theย QiL Nominations Suggestions Box.

    The latest information, including terms of reference, is available on the Quakers in London Website: https://quakersinlondon.org/am-nominations/.

  • News from JLAM: Latest Steps in Creating Quakers in London

    News from JLAM: Latest Steps in Creating Quakers in London

    On Saturday 13 June, the Joint London Area Meetings met at Westminster Meeting House to agree more steps towards becoming a single AM: Quakers in London (QiL), slated to take place in just over six months time. 

    With the help of QiL Co-Clerk Kate Green, we provide a summary of the morning and afternoon sessions and the thoughtful, creative, and constructive ministry that was heard.

    The minutes are also available to read and download here.

    Morning Session: How Should QiL Use its Money?

    The morning session was an open exploration around money. This is how one of our Clerks, Kate Green, summarised the lively discussion:   

    “We asked ourselves the question, โ€œHow should QiL use its money?โ€

    As single spiritual and financial body, how may we make the strongest impact in our Quaker, and the wider London, community? 

    Are we still as adventurous and far-sighted as earlier
    Friends were in using money for community benefit?

    It was a time for exploring our joys, fears and hopes for QiLโ€™s use of money, held in a spirit of worship. For the first time in London our meeting houses and our financial resources will be united. We need to discover our shared vision and what we are led to do, even when economic prospects are poor. Ministry started with references to Marie Kondoโ€™s philosophy. As we gradually evolve into Quakers in London, we need to examine all we do, all our traditions. Does this bring us joy? If it doesnโ€™t, thank it for its service and let it go.

    With the seven London AMs pooled resources, we hope to be able to more ethically manage our investments. Using the model of the Quaker Housing Trust, QiL could give grants, or lend money to other charities who share our testimonies and are doing the work we are led to do but arenโ€™t able to. We need to use all our connections with like-minded groups of people to discover what we may do together. We may also be led to contribute more than the minimum QiL quota, and to offer more service.

    Friends ministered about supporting Quaker children and young people (which may be as simple as giving them their own room in a Meeting House) and the need for a London Quaker Centre which is accessible to all.

    We also heard ministry about Reparation, the Climate Crisis, the Quaker Prison Ministry and the needs of Londonโ€™s young people in relation to violent crime.

    At the end of our session, we were all moved by the realisation that weโ€™re living in a historic time for Quakers in London. After the hard work of moving towards the merging of the seven London AMs, it was a discovery of our fundamental unity, and great hope for our future.”

    You can read more detail about this ministry in the document below:

    The Afternoon Session: Appointments, Membership, Discernment.

    In the afternoon session, key appointments were made, seven members of our community came into membership, and crucial financial decisions were taken.

    This meeting appointed JLAM’s interfaith representative, the QiL Membership Clerk, and a new member to the Elders and Pastoral Carers Committee. We also appointed six QiL “trustees in waiting”, who will begin their trusteeship on the first of January 2027.

    To get to know our community better, we are publishing introductions of trustees in waiting, role holders and community members over the course of 2026. This edition, we get to know two future trustees: George Barrow and Mary Stiasny.

    We also heard how the QiL finances will work and made the decision to maintain AMs existing designated funds for five years, then review.

    Additionally, two upcoming events which will help us continue our journey toward QiL were highlighted – one for Elders and Pastoral Friends on 11 July at Friends House and another on zoom on 29 July open to everyone to explore gaps in our present structure and how to fill them.

    We give our heartfelt thanks to all those who helped to make the day a success!

    Read and download the minutes below:

  • Getting to Know: George

    Getting to Know: George

    Name: George Barrow

    Role: currently assistant clerk of London Quaker Property Trust and nominated as a trustee of QiL on its creation as a charity

    Local Meeting: Having worshipped at Hampstead for about 15 years, Iโ€™ve recently moved my membership to Stoke Newington, which is considerably closer to home. Originally I was a member of a meeting in Birmingham, where I grew up.

    What parts of your service are you looking forward to? Before retirement I was very successful in keeping below the radar in Quaker terms but Iโ€™ve enjoyed the last four years as an LQPT trustee – particularly working on the development of the Better Homes strategy. The creation of QiL seems like a logical extension of this work. I believe it is something that will present us with possibilities and opportunities, with the dividend of releasing and redirecting our energy as Quakers into more rewarding work and witness.

    What is something you would like people to know about you or your role? I know that LQPT has from time to time been viewed with a bit of suspicion but Iโ€™ve found that the trustee group has brought together some really committed, caring people who want to support meetings (with or without Meeting Houses) and see them flourish, while shouldering the real responsibilities that running a charity brings

    Whatโ€™s your favourite quote from QF&P?The extract from QF&P I most commonly use is Isaac Penningtonโ€™s โ€œhelping one another up with a gentle handโ€. The message is not just about helping, itโ€™s how โ€œone anotherโ€ recognises that any of us might be the helper or the helped, depending on where and when, and what we have to offer.

    To get to know our community better, we are publishing a series of posts introducing Quakers in London including (but by no means limited to) “trustees in waiting” and role holders! If there is someone you would like to learn more about, or you would be interested in introducing yourself, please email us at quill@quakersinlondon.org.

  • Getting to know: Mary

    Getting to know: Mary

    Name: Mary Stiasny

    Role: I am a relatively new member of the London Development Group, having been asked to join it fairly recently. I have also just been appointed to be a Trustee of the new QiL.

    Local Meeting: I am a Member of South East London Area Meeting; I attend Forest Hill Meeting – and have done so for a very long time!

    What parts of your service are you looking forward to? I see this as the service I can give to London Quakers, having had so much given to me as a lifelong Quaker. My Quakerism is at the centre of my being. I hope we can together build a vibrant Quaker community across London which is outward looking and appeals to non-Quakers – not just to ourselves! It is time for us to grow as a community and as a religious group.

    What are you getting up to outside of Quakers? Outside the Society I am retired from working in universities, yet still very involved with higher education in various ways, and I like to spend lots of time with my husband, children and grandchildren.

    Whatโ€™s your favourite quote from QF&P? My favourite piece from QF&P is Advice 17, and I especially love that last sentence; โ€˜think it possible that you may be mistakenโ€™, because it reminds us that we need to be open to the meanings others bring; that we are not ourselves infallible.

    โ€œDo you respect that of God in everyone though it may be expressed in unfamiliar ways or be difficult to discern? Each of us has a particular experience of God and each must find the way to be true to it. When words are strange or disturbing to you, try to sense where they come from and what has nourished the lives of others. Listen patiently and seek the truth which other peopleโ€™s opinions may contain for you. Avoid hurtful criticism and provocative language. Do not allow the strength of your convictions to betray you into making statements or allegations that are unfair or untrue. Think it possible that you may be mistaken.โ€

    To get to know our community better, we are publishing a series of posts introducing Quakers in London including (but by no means limited to) “trustees in waiting” and role holders! If there is someone you would like to learn more about, or you would be interested in introducing yourself, please email us at quill@quakersinlondon.org.

  • Regional coordinators needed for peace gathering

    Regional coordinators needed for peace gathering

    Can you help?

    September 19th 2026 – London

    Plans are underway for a National Quaker peace gathering in London onย Saturday 19 September 2026.ย  This date has been chosen forย its proximity to the United Nations International Day of Peace. The event will take the form of aย Silent Walking Vigil. Key details are availableย at:ย https://quakervigilforpeace.org/.ย  The websiteย includes core information about the vigil and an opportunity to express interest and sign-up for updates.ย 

    Might you be interested in getting involved as a local organiser?

    • Local organisers would tell everyone about the Vigil.
    • Explore having a local Vigil for Friends who can’t travel to the event
    • Be a point of contact with the organisers

    If this would interest you, please contact Josh at joshs@quaker.org.uk